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forgive and forget set myself free from mental slavery.
To forgive and forget Is to ecknowledge the fact that every human is not flawless. Even ourselves have done something wrong in the past. Without forgiveness from the people who surround us, where will we be? making mistakes is how we learn, and change for the better, to not forgive someone is to hate them for their past. although i’m not suggesting you make them your best friends and kiss ass. just make peace with them, smile if necessary but still keep your distance if you are not sure their old habit still lives in them. want to forgive and forget because I am not perfect and have done alot of wrongdoings as well… intentionally or unintentionally… we can’t change the past, only let room for improvement. This is what I want to do, To forgive myself and others who make me angry, who insulted me even though if it is on purpose. We are humans and are prone to mistakes, I hate harbouring bad feelings of others as it does me no good and only attempts to ruin my mood. I want life to be happy. I want to be free. If the insult is so bad, maybe I can just forgive and forget, however stay ajar from that person until he or she shows that they have changed their ways. This is one of my greatest challenges, mentally so I hope I can do it. Because life is too short to dwell on the darkside. I’d rather enjoy it. tomoro is the person i want to forgive’s bday. I wonder if i should wish her a happy bday or just forget?
I don’t wanna be a kiss ass but at the same time.. not that mean. It’d be the first time in years that i didn’t give her a pressie. so…. hm… maybe its a new begining… if you are reading this… what do you think? |
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